Monday, May 25, 2015

To Change the World

For as long as I can remember, I've always had a desire to "change the world." I didn't just want to do little things, I wanted to make a visible difference. As I've grown older, I've had to become a little bit more realistic. Am I, all by myself, capable of changing the world??? Most likely not. But this doesn't mean I don't have the ability to make an impact on individual lives.
Luke 15 contains parables of the lost coin, the prodigal son, and the lost sheep.
“‘So he told them this parable: ‘What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing.’” Luke 15:3-5
When the shepherd lost just one sheep from the whole flock, he still went and looked till he found it. That one sheep still mattered to the shepherd. So if I can just find one lost sheep and bring them into the flock, then I am making a difference in the kingdom. Although I may not be able (or be called) to effectively make a huge impact on the world, I can still make a huge impact on a single life that is just as important.
We have to realize that the little things do count. Every word that you say and every action you take has the potential to either positively or negatively influence someone's life. Jesus already changed the world for forever when He came to this earth, but it is our role as his disciples to share the news of his world-changing sacrifice. And maybe you don't have the opportunity to do large-scale ministry in the kingdom, but the small seeds you plant in someone's life for the glory of God are just as important. It's not always about the results, the grand number of people saved, or making large scale impacts. Every single life is valuable, and if you can shine God's light in just one life, you have changed the world for them. 

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” –Mother Teresa 

Monday, May 18, 2015

Wait and Seek

            After this week, I will be completely done with my first year of college. I would say that it went by fast (that seems to be what most people say), but if I did I would be lying. For me, it seemed to actually go by dreadfully slow. I went through a lot of personal struggles this year, and it seemed like some days just dragged on forever.
            I think the main reason why it seemed so long was because I was waiting for God to give me answers, and there were times when it felt like He never did. Honestly, I was angry at God for some time because He wasn’t responding. The more I waited for Him, the more impatient I grew. But while I was caught up being impatient with God, God was actually patiently waiting for me.
            I was so frustrated that God was taking so long to get back to me, but the whole time He was just waiting for me. He had given me what I needed, but I was the one that was taking a long time to realize it. It wasn’t that God wasn’t responding to me, it was me taking a long time to actually follow up with what God had told me. And when I did, within just a few weeks the struggles in my life started to fade as God’s goodness started to become clear.
            Now imagine that you’re planning to meet a friend for coffee at one of the four Starbucks coffee shops in your town. But you don’t clarify which one, and you end up sitting at the wrong shop thinking that your friend is late. Meanwhile your friend is sitting at a different coffee shop thinking that you’re late…. In this picture, I was the friend that went to the wrong coffee shop, and the whole time God was waiting for me somewhere else.
            You always hear people say to just be patient and wait for God, but I think sometimes as Christians we wait too much. If you’re waiting for God in the wrong place, you could be waiting there for a long time. So instead of waiting, you have to get to the place where God wants you. When you find Him, you’ll realize that He has probably been waiting on you for quite some time. We have to seek God, and not just sit back and wait for him to do all the work. The beautiful thing is that love is patient, and God is love. No matter how long it takes you, God will patiently be waiting with open arms as soon as you stop waiting for him, and instead you start moving towards him.
“The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him.” –Lamentations 3:25

If you want to experience God’s goodness, it is so important to realize that waiting on God involves seeking God. If the answers aren’t coming when you want them, maybe you’re waiting for God at the wrong Starbucks. 

Monday, May 11, 2015

More Than Rubies

“She is worth far more rubies…She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come…Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” (Proverbs 31)
It may be that what’s on the inside is what really matters most, but do you actually believe it? The world is constantly setting standards on how women should look, dress, and sell themselves to the people around them. But, Proverbs 31:10-31 gives a way better standard for what makes a beautiful woman. The standards of the world are always changing, so I promise that you will probably never fully meet them. But if you aim to be a godly woman, you will be so much more fulfilled with the self-worth that God can give... Here’s a poem inspired by Proverbs 31 and how much God values each and every person, despite what the world says. 

More than Rubies
She walked to school every day with her hair covering her face
Trying to hide herself away
All the other kids pointed and laughed
They whispered to each other
But in her mind, she heard screams

Screams that told her she wasn’t pretty enough
She wasn’t skinny enough, didn’t have the right color of hair
Her eyes were boring, and her clothing was so last year
The screams told her she was worthless
Because she didn’t meet the standards of the world

As the screams echoed louder in her mind
She took another step, and began to cross the road
The driver saw her, he was still going too fast
His foot pressed firm on the brake,
 But it wasn’t enough

The force of the car threw her to the ground
Instantly her mind went silent
The screams from the world were no more
She saw a flash of light,
 And then heard these words

“You are worth more than rubies,
You’re more precious than gold
Don’t you know that I love you?
You’re my child, my beloved

Your clothing doesn’t matter
Your hair is perfect the way I made it
Haven’t you heard I don’t make mistakes?
You’re my masterpiece, a work of art

Don’t listen to the world
Don’t be deceived by its lies
For beauty is in who you are and
 Not in how they judge

Smile, my daughter,
 For this is not the end
You have more life to live
You have more beauty to give

Look to me always,
I’ll silence the screams
Just promise me one thing,
Don’t forget that you’re loved.”

She woke up in a white room
Lying on a hospital bed
But she smiled from ear to ear,

As she finally realized her worth

Sunday, May 10, 2015

To my Mom

This week’s blog post is a special shout-out to my incredible mother. I’d also like to wish a happy Mother’s Day to all the moms who are reading this. I can’t imagine a world without moms who are always serving and sacrificing for their families.   
Although I couldn’t be with my mom today, I still want her to know how thankful I am for everything she’s done in my life. So, without further ado, here are just 35 reasons why I love my mom so much <3
1- She never stops serving others. Whether it be making dinner for the family or volunteering to do yet another task that no one else wants to do, she is always putting others first.
2- Her faith. My mom has set an incredible example by devoting her life to God and his calling. She is always spending time in God’s Word and lives every day to bring glory to him.
3- She does Zumba... Regularly. Not a lot of people can say their mother is a Zumba fanatic, but I definitely can. I love my mom's personality and her persistent attempts to take me to Zumba and teach me some of her moves.
4- She's an excellent cook. I already mentioned how my mom makes dinner even when she has many other things she could be doing. But I didn't mention how good it always is!! After leaving for college, I've definitely missed her cooking.
5- She always knows exactly what to say. No matter what I'm going through, the first person I always want to talk to is my mom. She has so much godly wisdom and I know I can count on her whenever I need it.
6- She always does the little things to make me feel loved. She makes sure to tell me goodnight and that she loves me every single night, and it's those simple texts that often leave me smiling at the end of the day.
7- She has never stopped supporting me. Through sports, school, big decisions, prayer and etc., my mom is one of my biggest supporters. Whether it be always sharing my blog posts and letting me know she read it, or trying to watch as many of my volleyball games online as she can since she can't always be there in person, I always know she is going to encourage and support me in whatever I do.
8- She puts up with my attitude. Although it is never her fault, I tend to take a lot of my stress and bad attitude at the end of the day out on her. She's always loving and tries to cheer me up, or she lets me be alone when she knows I need it. Sorry for all the sass over the years, Mom, and thank you for understanding and loving me anyways.
9- Among many other things, she's taught me to stay true to myself and what I believe. In the midst of trial and temptation to make decisions that would go against my faith and what I've always believed in, she has always encouraged and reminded me that I don't have to change who I am to get the approval of others.
10- Spending time with her never gets old.
11- She is absolutely awesome.... She sometimes sings and dances in the kitchen, she has a unique sense of style, sometimes she talks to herself, she makes funny faces at our dog all the time, and she has some pretty funky but lovely hair. She really is just awesome.
12- She always listens to me rant. Sometimes I get upset about the dumbest or smallest of things, but she always sits and listens whenever I need someone to complain too.
13- She's strong. My mom is one tough cookie both emotionally and physically. Although I'd like to think I could take her in a fight, I sometimes have my doubts and think she'd probably kick my butt.
14- She's pretty good at iPhone word games and always gives me a good challenge.
15- I know she's constantly praying for me.
16- She's helped me grow an appreciation for dark chocolate.
17- She always made me eat my fruits and vegetables.
18- She's patient.
19- She always takes good care of me.
20- She taught me respect, good manners, and to be polite.
21- She truly taught me that life isn't fair and to keep on pushing through anyways.
22- She always looks for the positives in every situation.
23- She is almost always right about everything.
24- She's sure to be proud and excited for my accomplishments.
25- She's not afraid to take a good selfie.
26- She always wins when we have family game night.
27- She follows through with her commitments.
28- She's incredibly faithful to my incredible dad and our family.
29- She doesn't pick favorites out of her children although I know she secretly loves me just a little bit more.
30- She genuinely cares about the things going on in my life.
31- She's a good communicator.
32- She's my number 1 fan.
33- She's honest
34- She gives and gives and gives without asking for anything in return.
35- She makes me proud to be her daughter.

Mom, I hope you know that I really do love you more than words can say. I would not be where I am today without you in my life. I miss you so much and can’t wait to see you in a couple weeks. Have a wonderful day <3
-Brooklyn

 “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:25-30

Monday, May 4, 2015

Divergent Devotion

            The Divergent book series (also made movies) by Veronica Roth has been quite the rage recently. In the story, there are five different factions or character traits and each person is supposed to only truly be one. But those that are divergent defy these rules and can possess more than just one of the main qualities. So maybe instead of just being honest, someone is honest, selfless, and intelligent. The divergent people in this series were the ones that had a real impact in their society and were the ones that made all the difference.  
            Deuteronomy 6:4-9 is one of my favorite Bible passages. And in a way, it might be all about being divergent.
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
We’re not called to just love God with our hearts. The verse says to love God with all of your heart, with all of your soul, and with all of your might… In other words, love God with everything you’ve got. Now this is the part where you find out how Divergent has absolutely anything to do with this. Instead of just giving God a portion of ourselves, we should be divergent in our devotion to him. Everything you have should be given to God. Every area of your life should be lived for him. Every part of who you are should honor the commandment to love God with everything you have. Divergent devotion.
            When you become divergently devoted to God, that’s when you can start making a real impact. If you’ve seen the movie or read the books, the divergent people were ultimately persecuted for being divergent. So they hid themselves in the beginning and had no real effect on their world. But when the divergent accepted who they were and stopped hiding it, they began to change all the lives of the people around them. Sure, they had plenty of struggles and trials that they had to go through, but they were on the road to making a lasting positive impact in their world.

            Learn to be divergent and grow more and more devoted to serving Christ. Learn to become brave and not be afraid of the persecution you might receive for being fully devoted to God. And learn to work on the areas of your life where maybe you hold back and don’t completely surrender over to him. God’s not asking for a lot…. He’s asking for everything.